COPING UP WITH SOLITUDE PROBLEMS

                                                                                       

                Every human being is born as an  individual and so also the animals.  Even if twins are born they are also born individual wise with separation of  seconds or minutes.  So every person is "solo" by himself or herself at birth. Dependency factor for  birth is not referred to here since the dependent factor called a "parent" is required for a birth.  An endeavor is made to highlight, how a "solo" being , when driven to a solitude stay, in the context of growing up in life, feels or enjoys or suffers in his stay aforesaid.            

                Although born 'sole' ,every person belongs to a family, family being a relative group/s forming the society at large.  Thus a person born as a 'sole' being has to form part of a family, the relative group and the society at large since existence at the time of birth alone cannot contribute to  the growth of that person.  It, therefore, becomes a norm for a person to be in the family, the relative group and in the society at large at different times for different purposes.  In the course of this phenomenon a person may be compelled to stay in solitude being away from the family, the relative group, or the society at large.  At these times, this person having been an  attached entity earlier, would be constrained to entertain feelings - of happiness or isolation or a mixture of  both.  This state of the person, though a compelling factor, gives him lot of time to do introspection on various fronts and which he must do as a precept to be followed.  It is only then the solitude stay may be met with strength and valour.  If happiness in solitude is made to cross the moral ethics dangers are bound to be met with.  On the other hand, if the stay in solitude is given importance that attitude itself would result in injury - both in terms of physiology and psychology.  Therefore, every person must create a mind set to defeat the problem of boredom, by engaging  himself in a manner acceptable to him and acceptable by the laws of life and it is towards this end one must strive.  If this attitude is developed solitude stay may turn out to be a pleasant stay.since dawn to dusk variations of stay in life emerge.  All said and done 'solo' being is to shed his mortal coil in a 'solo manner.